Monday, November 14, 2005

I love honesty, but this one jumped up and bit me in the ass

I received the following email this morning from the "great" boy...

I hope you are having a good day. Thank you so much for introducing me to all of your friends. I had a really great time, and they all seem like really good people (just like you).
I'm sending you this email, because I needed to explain something. You've told me how much you valued honesty, and I just don't think it would be fair to you if we continue to see each other.
I know this is about as lame as it gets, sending you an email, but I wanted to make sure I could explain everything.
You are the kind of girl that I want to end up with. You're attractive, smart, and fun to be with. That really scares me right now, because I am definitely not looking for a serious relationship. The last girl I was with was not as into our relationship as I was, and that really hurt me. I decided that I am definitely going to do the "non-exclusive" dating thing for a while. I don't know if this is even making any sense, but we got along too well. I could see us moving into a serious relationship too quickly. I like and respect you too much to have a "casual" relationship.
You're just not something I am ready for right now. Whomever you end up with will be a very lucky guy.
I hope you understand, but I don't expect you to.

Seriously...i'm hurt and confused, and all I want to do is cry...but I'm at work and that's not appropriate...So, until I have space to do that...I'd like to just drop the F bomb here....Say it with me...

6 comments:

Tiffany said...

don't be afraid of someone else's fear...which perhaps doesn't fit with your feelings right now, but trust what you know and, obviously what he knows as well, hold on to that...also, let him go and he may come back...take it from a friend who has done the hurting and been released only to find her way back...in the meantime, dropping the f bomb with you and a few other choice words for the boy I don't know...love you

Kristenanne said...

FUDGE....
:0 ( I'm dropping it with you.

vbt said...

ok, at the count of three...

one...

two...

threeve...

FUCK!!!!!

or if we really want to be contemptous...

FUCKER!!!!

I'm sorry Megs, that sucks ass!!!

Scrounger said...

Sorry friend

FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK
FUCK FUCK FUCK

THAT WORD ROLLS OFF MY TOUNGE RIGHT NOW.

CALL ME LATER

Ms. Warren said...

WOW. What a jackass. That's the worse - "I want to end up with someone like you" - please buddy - throw me a freakin' bone you're just like the rest of the male population - cowards! They are all F'ing cowards Megs. You deserve so much better than that. Check your manhood buddy and do the face to face conversation, at least a phone call, what's wrong with boys that they resort always to f'ing e-mail, I'll say it again - f'ing cowards!! At least you got the e-mail, I didn't even get that from the last one.

liz said...

as your former "mentee" (is that what we call it?) any boy advice i give you might not seem appropriate. but whatever...he's missing out Megs...110%. i love you.
*liz